The power of self denial

I find it extremely interesting that people are able to convince themselves of things, even though the truth is blatantly staring them in the face. Although most of you think that this may be a creationism jibe, it isn't. Society has certain points of view when it comes to certain issues, for example, when you date two people at the same time it is usually considered cheating, but not to some people. Perhaps it is a need for a person to lie to themselves just so that they can make it through the day. I suppose that I can live with that as long as I don't have to lie as much as you do.

Another thing, I'm not sure where it says that you need to be friends with your ex-girlfriend. Yes, in some cases it is accepted, especially when the breakup isn't on bad terms. But when your ex-girlfriend proceeds to date your friends (notice the plural) I don't think that it is condoned, let alone accepted. Please stop bothering me about being your friend, you had your chance before you screwed me around for almost 3 years. And please stop using the excuse that you were just trying to make everyone happy, you didn't. Just because you felt that you weren't making anyone unhappy doesn't mean that you weren't.

But you didn't have to delete me.... But ok. Like i know you don't want to really have much to do with me, but still. [To some people it is their lifelong dream to remain as one of my contacts on mxit]

It isn't really. I just don't like bad feelings ever. [You considered that before you screwed me around for 3 years?]

That's ok. Things can work how you want them. I just never expected that from you of all ppl. But it's ok. Whatever makes you happy :) [Apparently the smiley changes the tone of the sentence]

I did speak to you, well tried. And well it's ok. It just seems really low that's all. But i respect you decision. [You spoke to me and told me that you wanted to date another one of my friends, telling me doesn't make it alright.]

And i do hope one day you might want to look past everything, cause it would be nice. [I decided when I came to university that I only had time for friends that I enjoyed being around. I am still civil around you, I just don't ever want to be your friend.]